Conditioning Chemo, Day -5

We are finally here.  In some ways you can look at this transplant as the hopeful end to a story, or the beginning of another -- either way, we're finally here to complete this form of treatment.

I was admitted yesterday (Wednesday) and had a small surgery in which a medical team placed a triple lumen catheter  (basically like my port but it has three different access points for fluids, chemo, and antibiotics to travel through) in my chest.  My site is pretty sore and tender; however, it's very helpful.

I've just completed my first round of in-patient conditioning chemo.  Today is considered day -5 in the transplant world, -4, -3, -2, -1 will also be conditioning chemo days.  Once we hit zero, next Tuesday, we will celebrate my rebirthday since it'll be the day Jacob donates his stem cells to me and my whole immune system will be completely brand new.

As for the transplant and recovery time itself, I have many, many fears about the future, graft versus host disease, surviving, and quality of life.  But, for now, I'm attempting to put all of those fears in a small box and up on a shelf.  Right now, I'm looking at this journey through very specific lenses.  I want and need to take things a day, or even an hour at a time, and all I can do is just that.  Take each day as it comes.

Luckily, yesterday and today have been extremely easy.  The brand new Columbia Prespyterian Hospital's BMT unit is gorgeous -- if such a thing can be possible.  It is an 18 patient unit on the 11th floor over looking the city and the Hudson River.  At night the city lights are mesmerizing, during the day you can watch Ferry boats pass through the waters… The floor itself is extremely quiet, everyone is very respectful, caring and attentive. The 46 flat screen TV, personal chef and menu (just for BMT patients), smoothie carts, caregivers futon, and beautifully tiled bathrooms don't make it that bad either ;)

My favorite PA is on this week, and the nurses have been an absolute breath of fresh air.  They check in on us every hour, without fail.  I find BMT nurses to be the best of the best, most of them have an awesome sense of humor and are brutally sarcastic.  I imagine you have to be, working in this field.  Everything I've needed from nausea to pain meds have been given without questions.  They trust me, and my needs, which is so empowering as a patient facing such a huge obstacle, such as transplant.  The social workers appear to know their shit, which is always helpful, and everyone in general gives off lots of positive vibes.  And most importantly, the areas surrounding the hospitals all are filled with tulip beds… red, white, and purple tulips everywhere. Good signs.

For now, it is smooth sailing.  The Flubaradine (chemo) that I received today and will receive the next four days went well.  No side effects to speak of yet (knock on wood), and hopefully it'll be well tolerated.  Most allo-transplanters say this is the easy part, the chemotherapy and treatment, it's really the recovery when your counts are non existent from Day 0 and on…. that are the darkest and most difficult.  But we will see.

One day at a time.  One hour at a time.  One minute at a time.
That's how we'll roll these days :)

In addition, I just wanted to take the time to endlessly thank ALL of you.  Your love, laughter, pictures, reminders, strong positive vibes, and caring words motivate me every single minute of the day.  I am so, so lucky to have every single one of you in my life.  You care for me, empower me, and love me -- and for that, I thank you.

This next year we'll be kicking off our fundraising goals into high gear to pay for this transplant.  Right now if you'd like to help out with the financial journey, or just buy some cool and delicious things, to check out my fundraising page at HelpHopeLive where most of the fundraisers will be listed.  Right now there is a 5k 'Stepping out for Support' that my in-laws are participating in, which you can sponsor donations as they dedicate their walk to me.  There is also a carmel-chocolate covered pretzel sale going on (possibly a great gift for momma's day!).  And we have a few more days that you're able to pick up your own B-Strong T-shirt or B-Strong Sweatshirt .  The T-shirts/sweatshirt sales will end on May 12th, so get 'em while their hot!  My fundraising team and I encourage you to share all of these goodies with friends and family too :)

Preview of the delicious pretzels that you're going to buy :)

Also, if any of you are one of those fabulous motivated people, we are looking for individuals to fundraise in their areas.  There is no time limit here.  We will fundraise for years if we have to -- what fun, right! ;)  So think carefully and simply: could you throw a car wash? a bake sale? hold a jeans day at your work? Go to a local bar and present them with my story/information/flyers (all of which we can provide you) to ask for a percentage of proceeds on a specific night? Do you belong to a gym? -- could you ask them to add five dollars to a class offered at the gym, and those proceeds go towards my fund?.  Are you running or participating in another athletic event -- if you are, would you mind asking friends and family to donate 5 dollars a mile to save a life? Do you have a vacation home or time share? -- can you raffle off a weekend (10 or 20 dollars a ticket) to your friends/family/coworkers and donate the proceeds to my fund?

My fundraising team has SO many ideas, so if you are stuck, no worries, we can help you find something.  If you want to run your own fundraiser, or need help thinking of an idea, please email one of my best friends, Karen, who's helping coordinate all of this at TrueBeautyFundraising@gmail.com.
She will give you all the information needed, she will direct/help you set up a flyer with HelpHopeLive, and then we can advertise it on my blog so others can help out too.  It's an easy process, and doesn't take too much energy but will go a LONG way.  So think about it :) Again, there is no time constraint.  Also, please remember all donations to my HelpHOPELive fund are tax-deductible.  You can find most of the fundraisers, and direct donations to my HelpHOPELive fund by clicking HERE.

So my hope? My hope for you today is if you live in the PA area is to go exercise on May 17th :) Join my in-laws on their 5k walk 'Stepping out for Support.'  If you don't live in PA, go clothe yourself already! ;) With one of our cool T-shirts/sweatshirts.  And above all, go treat someone you love to something sweet and send them some chocolate…or order some for just you -- you deserve it!

Any questions about the above: please email TruebeautyFundraising@gmail.com.
Sending love to all of you,
xoxox,
B.